tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post113185015479732105..comments2022-10-24T05:58:35.016-07:00Comments on Fearlessly Feminine: Why Women are Exposing themselves (part 2)Sarah Harrishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04015579880602990790noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-85560942328851733802007-09-20T23:02:00.000-07:002007-09-20T23:02:00.000-07:00Michelle,I think it's a little presumptuous to say...Michelle,<BR/>I think it's a little presumptuous to say the women here have no sense of style. Many of us do and that is the problem.<BR/><BR/>There are NOT a lot of nice fashionable things to wear that doesn't involve compromise of some sort. Or at least that is how some people make you feel.<BR/><BR/> I agree wearing a long tank or tunic over jeans is a way of making you look more modest. On that note, men are attracted to more than your butt and top showing. These clothes hide one thing then show off a whole set of other things. Some men or most men find just the shape of a woman's body distracting. Hip huggers are just that, hip huggers. They show off your hips and MOST men find that sexy!<BR/><BR/> Some people make you feel that your neck needs to be covered and your hair and it just gets to be ridiculous. Why not cover our faces too because I know many men who find eyes sexy as well as the curve of your lips or the dimple in your chin. The curve of the jaw line is sexy too!! Why not just go around wearing a paper sack:) <BR/> I think it's ridiculous at times because men do not take the same responsibility. I am distracted by a man with his shirt off and just about any church I have attended the guys have no problem taking off their shirts to play sports or to do a car wash to raise money for the church. Yeah they are more than likely just hot and not trying to make anyone stumble but I get quite distracted when a man with a nice chest and abs goes shirtless and the same thing with his butt. If the jeans are showing it then I am more than likely going to notice. And I'm so sick of men trying to say we are arroused by touch but they are by sight. Please men give me a break! God gave us eyes we are just a lot more quiet about it and some women down right lie because they don't want to appear as to have those types of problems. I'm not saying that all women lie. I know there are some women who honestly don't pay that much attention. I read that women are just as much visual as men and a lot of them have sub par hormone levels and that is why they do not notice. I read it derives from the female diet. And women are lacking a lot of things including larger omega 3 fatty acids that contributes to this low sex drive.<BR/><BR/>I'll tell you one thing. This is one chick that notices men and I know of more women that do notice then don't.<BR/><BR/>Take note men and take responsibility as well.<BR/><BR/>P.S. I think what we find sexy depends on our society. Some cultures go around naked and men I noticed could care less cause they are exposed to it constantly. I'm not suggesting streaking.<BR/><BR/>I read that God made Adam and Eve tunics and it was the same as a sleeveless tunic.<BR/><BR/>If I saw a man in a sleeveless tunic and he had pretty skin and a nice build I'm going to be distracted. Plain and simple. There will be times we dress modest but there will always be someone making us feel that it's not enough. If God made a sleeveless tunic for Adam and Eve then it's good enough for the rest of us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-10621857293909725832007-05-30T13:49:00.000-07:002007-05-30T13:49:00.000-07:00Modesty is important in dressing, but it is not th...Modesty is important in dressing, but it is not the hallmark of my life. I wonder if the enemy uses issues like this to distract us from our REAL responsibilities. Like Michelle said Jesus will be back any day now. Are we going to tell him we spent all our efforts making sure we dressed mosdestly or reached out to the lost for his sake? Don't let the enemy make this molehill (modesty) a mountain in your life...people are dying without Christ every day!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-68227898049332764822007-03-23T05:36:00.000-07:002007-03-23T05:36:00.000-07:00I find it hard to believe that we are exposing our...I find it hard to believe that we are exposing ourselves because we feel safe. Fashion is bringing sexy back in, and you may scoff at the notion that these clothes are all back in the shops, but have you ever tried to find a nice t- shirt that doesn't have a plunging neckline? Maybe it is stubborn and selfish of me to refuse to compromise like Michelle does, but I would like to buy clothes for myself! Layering things just doesn't interest me, and I am sick of going out of my way just to find one item of clothing. Modest clothing is generally more expensive as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-1168123895845266942007-01-06T14:51:00.000-08:002007-01-06T14:51:00.000-08:00I found this to be a very interesting and insightf...I found this to be a very interesting and insightful article, but what I wanted to comment on was the painting of the five women walking along the seashore - it's so lovely! I really enjoy and appreciate all the beautiful, feminine paintings on this blog! Thank you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-1167649988695766402007-01-01T03:13:00.000-08:002007-01-01T03:13:00.000-08:00I would just like to say something in regards to m...I would just like to say something in regards to modesty. I definately agree that we need to be modest as according to the Bible. But, all you girls out there are complaining about not being able to find anything to wear. I strongly disagree. You lack imagination and have no sense of style. You CAN WEAR the lates styles and still be modest. For instance, I went to American Eagle today and bought a sweater and a long tank top. Yes, I got them from American Eagle. I wear that tank top and many other different styles of long and short tank tops/ shirts under clothes that might be too revealing. If you buy hip hugger jeans, wear a long shirt that you can tuck or that is long enough to where you don't have to worry about it coming up your back. By the way, long shirts are back in style anyway. <BR/>Last but not least, while I applaud you for listening to the Holy Spirit and studying Scripture, I really feel that you guys make tooo big of a deal out of this and get too bent out of shape about modesty. I agree that it is an issue. But, the let's remember why we are on earth in the first place. It seems like all you focus on is homemaking/modesty/ et...... WAKE UP!!!! Jesus is coming back soon!!! How are you making a difference in the non 'believers lives? Some of you are so stuck in the 1800's. how could you possibly help a fellow non Christian. I think that if you spent more time focusing on bringing people to Jesus, et....., God will help you figure out the whole clothes thing.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01094664262556642876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-1165065200896358582006-12-02T05:13:00.000-08:002006-12-02T05:13:00.000-08:00I am a beautiful sexy 40 something stay at home mo...I am a beautiful sexy 40 something stay at home mom to 4 boys and I LOVE my position as a woman - The other day I heard a comedian on TV speaking of the same issue stating something like ...guess what girls we noticed you in the 1980's when you wore those "praire skirts" and high buttoned collars, and how about that preppy look - you looked hot then too - we are men and we don't care what you have on...<BR/>So why these young ladies feel the need to bare it all for a man is not necessary - trust me they notice :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-1159014748979665622006-09-23T05:32:00.000-07:002006-09-23T05:32:00.000-07:00maybe you could post some examples of the differen...maybe you could post some examples of the difference? it sounds a little dumb, :P but still i need to be reeducatedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18063083.post-1156832272268331822006-08-28T23:17:00.000-07:002006-08-28T23:17:00.000-07:00I agree with you, "We" didn't know that. It adver...I agree with you, "We" didn't know that. It advertizes sex and does not give you the affection and love you desire, when you show revealing skin and most women aren't aware that men of all ages notice them all the same way, what ever it is that they advertize.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com